Reasons why I left the official Paralives discord.
As many of you know, I used to be a moderator for the official discord, but left a few months back. I tried my best, and did as much as I could, but it just didn’t work out in the end. The reason being that it started to feel like a genuine chore to even just be present and doing my job as a moderator, and this was accentuated by the disagreement when it come to how things should be handled. I am in no way blaming anyone, nor going into details, but rather just explaining as a whole. Yesterday, I tried to join the discord again, as a simple member of this community, but I couldn’t bring myself to stay. Some people have asked me why that is, and this is the reason for this post so my actions aren’t misunderstood. I joined back to share my thoughts on the reveal, but, I also didn’t want to clog the chat with something very lengthy, this being even more obvious given my forum post about it. I quickly realized that I wasn’t comfortable staying however, because I dislike what the discord has become. Being a mod in the past made it even more obvious to me. I was always one for consistency, and being fair. Everyone should be treated the same, regardless, and that is what the rules are for. Keep in mind that I am not here to bash anyone, nor make anyone feel insulted. I do appreciate my former team, and think they are all amazing people, but again, I disagree with how some things are handled (as after all this is the reason why I left). I want to mention that I did smile at how people remembered me and seemed happy to see me, and that I am sorry if I wasn’t able to stay. It just affects me and make me feel uncomfortable to be around in the discord, which is why I decided that it was better for me to leave again. I would like to mention as a side note that I don’t regret anything, because it allowed me to meet many amazing people that I am proud to call my friends, and not even the worst of the situation can hinder that gratitude and happiness to have them in my life. If anyone wish to contact me, I am still around whether it is here on the Hub website, or on Hubcord/discord. Hopefully people will understand my motives better, and won’t judge me too harshly for putting my well-being first.
Remember to stay kind and respectful to everyone, and I wish you all a nice day!