I can’t remember if I wrote this suggestion or not before but I will repeat it. I know I’m using women mostly in the example but the same idea also applies to men as well

I think friends of Para parents’ should offer different kind of “form of Address” for the para children of the para parents could call them. Like maybe one person would prefer to be called when the child is a child “Mrs. Brewer” but when the child is an adult they can just start calling her Wendy (her first name)-which might be difficult for the child who is used to calling them “Mrs. Brewer”. Another woman might prefer to go by Abby. And another woman might want to go with the use of “Aunt Molly” even though she’s not a real auntI can’t remember if I wrote this suggestion or not before but I will repeat it. I know I’m using women mostly in the example but the same idea also applies to men as well

I think friends of Para parents’ should offer different kind of “form of Address” for the para children of the para parents could call them. Like maybe one person would prefer to be called when the child is a child “Mrs. Brewer” but when the child is an adult they can just start calling her Wendy (her first name)-which might be difficult for the child who is used to calling them “Mrs. Brewer”. Another woman might prefer to go by Abby. And another woman might want to go with the use of “Aunt Molly” even though she’s not a real aunt